I feel that way too. Aids is still out there even though there are much better medicines nowadays. This covid19 is really a bummer. I had a test for it last month. They stick those damn long Qtip swabs up your sinuses; damned uncomfortable to say the least! But to my good fortune the test was negative. But I did have a respritory infection which my doc treated me for. I'm OK and it was not contageous. I think the big rise in the covid19 cases has come from so many idiots not taking it seriously, equating it with stupid politics and refusing masks and distancing. Even during all these protests you could see that perhaps only about 1/3 of the protesters wore a mask. Anyway it just shows disease concerns must be taken seriously. I am very motivated to suck also., safely too. Before AIDS the big thing was hepatitus. Then AIDS and anonymous sex was out of the question . So it is best to have a steady friend who you know does not behave like an alley cat. Where in west Houston are you? A meeting for coffee first would be nice. Looks like you want to be really discrete and I really respect that. You say west Houston and I'm in Katy so we probably live closer to each other than we realize although we are talking about Texas! My sister lives up in Ohio and has been married since 1974. Those people are wowed if they have to drive 10 or 15 or 20 miles to get somewhere. Here in Texas people don't think that much about distance. I think our city blocks are twice as long as theirs! LOL! :-) :-)=8 I'm not a Starbucks fan but someplace like Pannera would be OK.